Wednesday, April 11, 2012
Almost at the beginning
Wow, looking back I didn't realize it'd been so long since I'd updated the blog! I think I kept waiting to post thinking I'd have a court date to finalize our adoption. I still don't. The paper trail continues, but we have officially signed the pre-adoptive papers! So, we are waiting for DHS to transfer documents to our attorney who will get us a court date. Then we can celebrate (and post pictures!) The kids are pretty excited about having an adoption party. Really, I think they're just excited about a party in general. Did you say "cake?" Mmm... Oh, and what kind of cake do they want? Pinkalicious! Yep, both of them.
About a month ago we had a neat experience visiting the kids' previous church-the one they attended with their first foster family. They had lived with this family for about a year when they were 3-4 years old. It was emotional as we met their daycare workers, preschool teacher, and others who had known them through church. They had known the kids well and had struggled to let go last summer. In faith, they trusted that God was saying he had a different family in mind for these kids. When they met us and found out we were a family who follows God, it was an answer to their prayers. They let us know how proud they were of the kids' progress & how well they seemed to be doing. It was humbling for us to see so many people who had invested in them and prayed for us before they even knew who we were.
That day during the service we had an experience that we'd never had before: the pastor decided not to preach. Instead, during worship time, there was a word spoken about forgiving others & getting our hearts right. We continued in a time of corporate prayer until a second word was revealed about souls hanging in the balance & who would go? It was a refreshing and intimate experience-being part of the church functioning like the Bible talks about. We were so thankful to be in His presence, so thankful for the spiritual foundation that was laid for our kids. When I expressed this to the kids' previous foster mom, she just said, "and there's more to come." I am interested to see what God continues to reveal to us through our kids.
We got to share a testimony at church on Easter of God's redemptive power working in our family. We are hopeful for our future as a family. The kids are grieving the loss of their other family & celebrating their acceptance into ours at the same time, which makes for some messy days and sometimes long nights. But, overall, as long as we can rest in knowing that God is writing a story of hope...we are good.
On a side note, we have started a monthly foster/adoptive prayer support group in our home. We just have a couple families coming, but it has been encouraging for us. We've also joined a playgroup & started getting information about the kids' school for fall. I'm excited that Hunt Elementary has a diverse group of kids & am hoping to find my niche bridging communication between the English-speaking & Spanish-speaking families. It may even be a place where I can teach an adult ESL class.
Hopefully we will have two more crazy people sharing the last name Kornmann with us in the next month or so when we finalize things. Here's to closing one chapter and opening the next! God bless!
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Your family is always in my prayers. Instead of growing under your heart, these very special children are growing in your heart and in the hearts of the entire family.
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thanks for this update! how encouraging to hear how God is using you and teaching you so much at the same time. :) We'll be excited to celebrate with you "officially" but celebrate the good things that are going on in your family right now. :)
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